Passa a Pro

LEARNING INTEGRITY IN THE HARDEST WAY

I reflect back to four years ago when my search for a job led me to a construction site. On that day, I stumbled upon an experience that would shape my understanding of integrity in the hardest way. As I quietly observed, something unusual caught my attention—the assembly of workers with their team leaders. They began with a prayer, a rare sight in many workplaces, and discussed the tasks accomplished so far and the work that lay ahead. What intrigued me was how the apprentices, who were there to earn their wages, were treated with respect, included in discussions, and their opinions sought. During the meeting, one of the team leaders posed a question to the group: “What is integrity?” A worker responded confidently, “Integrity is doing what is expected of you even when nobody is watching.” This simple yet profound statement set the tone for an unforgettable lesson for me. The day unfolded with everyone diligently working on their assigned tasks. As I observed, I noticed a young apprentice—let's call him Kwame—who seemed hesitant and unsure. While carrying bricks, he intentionally avoided lifting heavier loads when the supervisor wasn’t looking. His actions caught the attention of one of the senior workers, who later called him aside and shared a piece of advice. The elder worker said, “Kwame, remember the African proverb: ‘The true test of a man’s character is what he does when no one is watching.’ If you cut corners today, you’ll build a house of regret tomorrow.” This conversation lingered in my mind. Kwame’s behavior seemed minor at first glance, but it revealed the deeper challenge of upholding integrity when no immediate reward or punishment is evident. Later that week, the project manager conducted a surprise inspection and discovered that Kwame’s corner-cutting had compromised the stability of a wall. The wall had to be rebuilt, and Kwame’s actions became a lesson for everyone. The project manager addressed the team, emphasizing, “Integrity is like a foundation. If it’s weak, everything built upon it will crumble. In life and work, your actions today determine the strength of your future.” He ended with a popular Akan proverb: “When the drumbeat changes, so must the dance.” The team needed to adjust their approach to accountability and ensure every task was executed with care. This experience stayed with me. It reminded me of a similar personal challenge years earlier when I worked in a small shop. My boss once left me in charge, and I was tempted to steal a small amount from the day’s sales, thinking I wouldn't be caught. But the words of my grandmother echoed in my mind: “If you think nobody sees, remember the sky watches over us all.” I resisted the temptation, and though my honesty wasn’t immediately rewarded, it built a reputation that opened doors for me later. Integrity is not just about grand gestures; it’s in the small, everyday choices we make. The experience at the construction site taught me that integrity is not innate; it is cultivated through practice, reflection, and sometimes painful lessons. In the words of an Ethiopian proverb: “When the spider’s web unites, it can tie up a lion.” Just as a team’s integrity strengthens a project, our collective moral choices shape our communities and futures. Today, I carry these lessons into every aspect of my life. Integrity may be tested in the hardest ways, but each test is an opportunity to build character and trust. To my readers, I leave you with this thought: The world may not always reward your integrity immediately, but it is the one investment that never depreciates. Let’s build lives and legacies that stand the test of time, one honest choice at a time.
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