WHAT IS LOVE? - DR MYLES MUNROE

Love is not enough for a successful marriage. Love can be deceiving and may not be a reliable qualification for marriage. Love may bring happiness, but it does not necessarily provide the tools and skills needed to make a marriage work.

A successful marriage requires knowledge and understanding about how to live and commit to your partner. Understanding how to navigate the challenges of a committed relationship is a crucial element for a lasting and fulfilling partnership.

Love can make us believe that we can overcome any obstacles in a relationship. However, the reality is that many divorced individuals were once deeply in love with their partners. This challenges the notion that love is what keeps a marriage together. Love alone does not guarantee success in marriage. While love brings happiness, it lacks the necessary ingredients to sustain a marriage. Knowledge is what truly makes a marriage work.

Many people enter into marriage solely based on their feelings of love, without considering the practical aspects and challenges of living with someone. Our culture places a strong emphasis on emotions, leading us to make impulsive commitments without considering the practical aspects of a long-term commitment.

To protect and sustain a marriage, individuals need to acquire knowledge about how to navigate the complexities of a long-term commitment. This knowledge may include understanding effective communication, conflict resolution, compromise, and the ability to adapt to change. By possessing this knowledge, individuals can better equip themselves to build and maintain a successful marriage.

In conclusion, love is not the sole determinant of a successful marriage. Instead, knowledge about how to navigate the complexities of a committed relationship is crucial for a lasting and fulfilling partnership.

𝟗 𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐛𝐨𝐨𝐤 “𝐓𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐪𝐮𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐛𝐲 𝐓𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐝𝐚𝐲” 𝐛𝐲 𝐋𝐚𝐮𝐫𝐚 𝐕𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐤𝐚𝐦

1. If you want to make time for what matters, you have to know what matters.
2. People who spend time planning tend to have a better sense of control over their lives.
3. We tend to think of time as a scarce resource, but it is actually a limitless one. We all have the same amount of time in a day, but how we use that time is what makes the difference.
4. Mindfulness is the ability to be fully present at the moment, to be aware of what is going on both inside and outside of yourself.
5. It's important to schedule downtime in your day or week, just as you would schedule any other important task or appointment.
6. Saying no to something you don't really want to do can be incredibly liberating.
7. We can't control everything that happens in our lives, but we can control how we react to it.
8. Taking care of yourself is not a luxury, it's a necessity.
9. It's not about finding balance, it's about finding harmony - a way to make everything in your life work together seamlessly.
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DON'T DIE WITH MY THINGS.

Do not neglect your gift, which was given you through a prophetic message when the body of elders laid their hands on you (1 Timothy 4:14).

[Chapter 1]
Suppose…
Suppose Shakespeare had died before he wrote his poems and plays—the potential of Macbeth would have been buried.

Suppose
Michelangelo had died before he painted the Sistine Chapel or DaVinci the Mona Lisa—the beauty of their paintings would have been lost.

Suppose Mozart had died with all that music in his bosom.

Suppose Moses had died before he saw the burning bush…

Paul before he met Jesus on the Damascus Road…

Abraham before Isaac was born.....
How different the pages of Scripture and history would be.

Suppose Martin Luther had died without writing the thesis…

Charles Wesley without penning the hymns…John Wycliffe without translating the Bible into English. How different the history of the Church might have been.

Can you imagine how many great works of art, music, and literature are buried in the graveyard near your house?

Can you imagine
how many solutions to the problems we face today are buried with someone you knew?

People die without getting out their full potential. They fail to use all that was stored in them for the benefit of the world.

I wonder what would have happened if your father had died before you were conceived or your mother before you were born.

What would the world have lost if you had not been born? What will the world lack because you fail to live out your potential?

Will you carry songs, books, inventions, cures, or discoveries to your grave?
What would the world have lost if you had not been born?

Our teens are committing suicide. I wonder who they were supposed to be and what they were supposed to do that we will never
know. Have we lost some great leaders? Was your grandchild’s professor or another Martin Luther King among them?

WHAT WILL
THE WORLD
LACK BECAUSE YOU
FAIL TO LIVE OUT YOUR
POTENTIAL.

Dr. Myles Munroe — with Alex Susukpor

10 Lessons I learned from the book " The Top 10 Distinctions Between Millionaires and the Middle Class"

1. Millionaires do not increase their spending when their income increases, they increase their investing.

2. Millionaires talk about ideas. The middle class talks about things and other people.

3. Millionaires believe they must be generous. The middle class believes they can't afford to give.

4. Millionaires Continually learn and grow. The middle Class thinks learning ended with school.

5. Millionaires embrace Change. The middle class is threatened by change.

6. Millionaires think long term. The middle class thinks short term.

7. Millionaires work for profits. The middle class works for wages.

8. Millionaires focus on ind increasing their net worth. The middle class focuses on increasing it's paychecks

9. Millionaires take risks. The middle class is afraid to take risks.

10. Rich and very rich people have developed the discipline of delayed gratification. Millionaires do today what others don’t, so they can have tomorrow what others won’t.

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THE BASIC LAWS OF HUMAN STUPIDITY

1. First Basic Law

Always and inevitably everyone underestimates the number of stupid individuals in circulation.

2. Second Basic Law

The probability that a certain person is stupid is independent of any other characteristic of that person.

3. Third Basic Law

A stupid person is one who causes losses to another person or a group of people while they gain nothing or may even suffer losses.

4. Fourth Basic Law

Non-stupid people always underestimate the damaging power of stupid individuals. In particular, non-stupid people constantly forget that in any time and place and circumstance dealing and/or hanging out with stupid people always turns out to be a costly mistake.

5. Fifth Basic Law

Stupid people are the most dangerous type of people.

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SOME SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE AND THEIR READING STORIES.

1. Warren Buffett is known for his voracious reading habits. He spends a significant amount of his day reading various materials, including annual reports, business newspapers, and books on a wide range of subjects, particularly investing and business management.

2. Oprah Winfrey is an avid reader and has a well-known book club where she recommends and discusses books with her audience. She credits much of her success to the habit of continuous learning through reading.

3. Elon Musk is known to be an avid reader from a young age. He has mentioned in interviews that he would read for 10 hours a day as a child. He often attributes his broad knowledge base to his extensive reading habits.

4. Bill Gates is known to be an avid reader and often shares his reading recommendations through his blog, Gates Notes. He reads a wide range of materials, from non-fiction books about technology and science to novels and biographies.

5. Sheryl Sandberg, the COO of Facebook, is known for her disciplined reading habits. She sets aside time each day to read and is often seen sharing insights from the books she reads on her social media platforms.

6. Mark Zuckerberg, the CEO of Facebook, has made it a personal challenge to read a book every two weeks. He shares his reading list annually and often discusses the impact that books have had on his personal and professional growth.

7. Satya Nadella, the CEO of Microsoft, is known for his love of poetry and literature. He often incorporates lessons learned from literature into his leadership style and decision-making process.

8. Indra Nooyi, the former CEO of PepsiCo, is an avid reader who has credited books with shaping her leadership style and approach to business. She often recommends books to her employees and peers as a way to foster continuous learning and growth.

These individuals showcase the importance of reading as a habit for personal and professional development.
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10 LESSONS FROM THE BOOK "THE FIRST 20 HOURS: HOW TO LEARN ANYTHING FAST" BY JOSH KAUFMAN:

1. Break a skill down into smaller chunks: Kaufman argues that breaking down a skill into smaller, manageable chunks makes it easier to learn and practice.

2. Set specific, measurable goals: Kaufman suggests setting specific and measurable goals for your learning journey to help you stay on track and measure progress.

3. Use the "minimum effective dose" approach: Kaufman suggests focusing on the minimal amount of practice required to make progress, rather than trying to practice for hours on end.

4. Practice deliberately: Kaufman argues that deliberate practice, which involves focusing on specific areas that need improvement, is more effective than simply repeating a task.

5. Use spaced repetition: Kaufman suggests using spaced repetition to retain information better.

6. Overcome mental barriers: Kaufman provides strategies for overcoming mental barriers, such as fear of failure, that can hold people back from learning new skills.

7. Stay motivated: Kaufman provides tips for staying motivated during the learning process, such as focusing on the benefits of acquiring a new skill and finding a sense of purpose.

8. Learn from experts: Kaufman suggests seeking out experts in a particular field to learn from, as they can provide valuable insights and guidance.

9. Experiment and make mistakes: Kaufman encourages experimentation and making mistakes as part of the learning process.

10. Embrace the power of continuous learning: Kaufman emphasizes the importance of continuing to learn and improve throughout life.

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"From Fear to Fluency: The Art of Public Speaking" by James Manson guides readers through conquering stage fright, mastering communication techniques, and cultivating confidence to become compelling speakers.

1. Embrace Fear as Fuel: Acknowledge that fear is a natural part of public speaking. Use it as a source of energy to enhance your performance rather than letting it hinder you.

2. Preparation is Key: Invest time in thorough preparation before any speaking engagement. Research your topic, organize your thoughts, and practice your delivery to build confidence and fluency.

3. Know Your Audience: Understand the demographics, interests, and expectations of your audience. Tailor your content and delivery style to resonate with them effectively.

4. Master Nonverbal Communication: Recognize the power of body language, gestures, and facial expressions in conveying your message. Practice confident posture and eye contact to establish rapport with your audience.

5. Tell Compelling Stories: Craft narratives and anecdotes that captivate your audience and illustrate your key points. Storytelling is a powerful tool for engaging emotions and making your message memorable.

6. Practice, Practice, Practice: Continuously refine your public speaking skills through regular practice sessions, mock presentations, and seeking feedback from peers or mentors.

7. Emphasize Clarity and Simplicity: Communicate your ideas concisely and clearly to ensure understanding among diverse audiences. Avoid jargon and complex language that may alienate or confuse listeners.

8. Manage Nervousness Effectively: Develop strategies such as deep breathing, visualization, or positive affirmations to calm nerves and maintain composure during presentations.

9. Engage with Authenticity: Be genuine and authentic in your delivery, allowing your personality and passion to shine through. Authenticity fosters trust and connection with your audience.

10. Continuous Learning and Growth: Cultivate a mindset of continuous improvement by seeking opportunities to learn from both successes and setbacks. Reflect on each speaking experience to identify areas for refinement and growth.

MEN, SEX & MADNESS 9

Believe it or not women find it difficult to understand the reason why men love sex.

* If they want to help you, they will demand for sex.
* If they say they love you, they want sex.
* You mistakenly sleep over, they want sex.
* They want to borrow money from you, they want sex.
* They want to give you a job, they want sex.
* They want to give you a pass in your exams, they want sex.

First of all, you need to understand the system of men. They didn't ask for that because they didn't create themselves.

Do you know that 95% of healthy men wake up with an erection? Did they bargain for that? No!
Do you know that the penis has a mind of its own?

A man could be reading his Bible and his penis will just stand.
A man can be sleeping and wakes up with an erection.
A man could be sleeping, once you start rubbing the penis, it
stands even when he is still asleep.

Have you ever asked yourself why men are not on periods, cramps or any bad moods? That's how God created them.
A man is naturally always ready for sex. Rub a man on his head, he already thinks you want sex.
Wink at him, he's already seeing you naked.
Wave at a man walking with his wife, he will loose focus.

This is nothing spiritual. It's not about, "ln Jesus Name or Holy
Ghost Fire".

That's why real churches do not allow ladies with short dresses to sit in front, because they will confuse the Pastor.
Men did not manufacture the high libido by themselves.

We are all created in God's image. The only man that overcame the sexual urge according to the good book was Jesus Christ. Joseph's own was that, he didn't just ran away,
he fled!! Jesus is Lord and on top of that, He was very careful not to include a woman among His disciples.

So many great men have fallen because of sex. Do you think they wanted to?

Soldiers in the war front will develop the urge for sex. To show you how bad it is, so many soldiers were killed during
wars because a woman lured them inside bush.

David in the scriptures sent a woman's husband to the war front when he saw a woman washing outside. He was later
told that it is the wife of his faithful servant who he has sent to war. He took the woman and had sex with her.

Do I need to tell you about Sampson?
Solomon and other Bible characters?
It only takes the grace of God and some level of discipline and maturity to curtail this animalistic instinct.

The way the man's body reacts to the sexual urge is not the same as a woman's body reacts to it. How many great women have you heard messed up because of a ****? Few, or even none.
So next time a man misbehaves because of sex, don't see him as an animal. They are just responding to nature.

Don't be like, "I've lost the respect I had for you, "I thought you were responsible, so this was what you wanted?"

I pray you read this post with realistic understanding.
Men should also understand that it is not all erection that is meant for sex. They should learn to control their urge.

Men are wonderfully created, but
CONTROL YOURSELVES, OH YE MEN!!!

THE MOST IMPORTANT PARADOXES OF LIFE